Torn...

Are you ever torn between 2 things? And they are really important things. Not like which restaurant you should go to for dinner (although I can never decide that either), but something if you choose not to do, you can never get back. I am currently having that dilemma and it is so much worse because I can never make a decision for the life of me. I am terrible at it. I just want someone else to decide and that is that. Both things are important to me, so that's what is hard. I just don't know what to do... can't I just draw my decision out of a hat and go from there?